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Tips for your Teens & Tweens: Coping with Stress & Learning at Home

Being a Tween or Teen can be tough when life is normal.  With the restrictions due to COVID-19  it is even harder. Many important milestones, in the lives of youth, have been altered this spring. Many activities have been cancelled: graduations, trips, driving lessons, sports, clubs, etc.   Socializing and gaining independence are very important for teens and tweens.  Youth may resist help and routines suggested by parents.

Future events can seem so far away for teens because they have lived fewer years than adults.  The current social distancing measures seem, to me, to have been going on for a long time.  Image how it feels to be a youth! They do not even know what they can look forward to in the months and the year ahead of them.  There is a certain amount of grief that comes along with the loss of activities that youth have been looking forward to. 

Grief contains many emotions: sadness, feeling low, feeling unmotivated, weepiness, hopelessness, irritability, and anger. These emotions and their intensity are different for everyone.  Adding the shift to distance learning can cause even more stress.  Some youth will be struggling to understand and explain what they are feeling.  

The link below will take you and your teens/tweens to an online presentation (from April 2020) where a local highschool student talks about what students are going through during COVID-19. She hosts a local professional tutor and a local highschool child & youth worker. They give suggestions for ways to stay focussed while learning at home, and how to deal with stress.  They share resources that teens and tweens can access. 

Please contact info@ldawc.ca, or 519-837-2050 if you need help accessing the video or have questions or need resources.  

The video is presented by Big Brother, Big Sisters of Centre Wellington, Youth Action Committee: BTogether Talk Series. 

COVID-19 & Learning from Home

Many families are struggling to manage children’s learning while away from the classroom.   What was supposed to be two weeks after March Break has now extended indefinitely which can be very stressful for parents as well as students who require the structure and instruction of the classroom to learn. 

The government has developed some online resources to try and curb the time not in the classroom.  I haven’t yet reviewed to see if this is something practical and helpful but the links can be found at https://www.ontario.ca/page/learn-at-home.  If you have explored these links please post your thoughts in our comments section – would appreciate you sharing for other families to see how these tools are being used or how effective they are. 

As we attempt to fill in the hours when our children were typically in school the suggestions in the article link below may be practical and effective ways to learn while not with their teacher.  

We hope everyone is staying safe and healthy